Flower Etiquette

The going theory is that women love flowers. Men generally know this, and the flower industry proves it - ordering last-minute bouquets February 13 is virtually impossible. But when to give flowers outside of February? Well, that conundrum might seem a sticky one, but flowers are appropriate for a number of occasions.

Occasion No. 1: The Dinner Party

Host or hostess gifts might seem a thing of the past, but Emily Post etiquette maintains guests at a sit-down dinner should bring some item in appreciation of the invitation. Flowers are a lovely gesture - but with a caveat. Emily's daughter, Peggy, advises guests not to take a fresh bouquet needing immediate attention - your host or hostess has to get dinner on the table. Instead, present a pre-potted plant or a bouquet already in a vase.

Occasion No. 2: The Office Holiday Gift Exchange

Mix up your holiday office gift with a potted plant or pack of seeds and a decorative pot; your coworker can place it on his or her desk or take it home. Either way, a plant is a gift to share, and one that can well outlast the holidays.

Occasion No. 3: The First Date

Here's the quick skinny on giving your date flowers. Choose an unusual flower - don't go for carnations or roses; try a lily or daisy, something that says your woman (or man, as it were) is a special one. Don't go overboard on the number of flowers - six or less is more than sufficient. And be sure to present flowers when picking up your date so they can be properly taken care of before you leave your date's home. Carrying flowers around all night is more than a hassle - it'll ensure they won't last beyond the evening.